When a child starts to learn how to stand on his feet, how to move, how to walk he needs a prop up in the beginning from his parents, so that he can learn how to fix his feet on the ground, usually the parents initially buy a child walker, the parents teach him not to walk from toes in beginning and how to hold on to something when he is feeling like he is going to fall down, this unconditional love from parents to the child is natural which teaches him lot of lessons while running away and towards different objects and worldly things which some of them he can touch and some of it shouldn’t be touch in his age where he doesn’t know the difference of good and bad.

On the other hand some of us are not born lucky, some are born with defects it can be mental, physical or both, in other cases some faces harsh reality in the beginning, middle or end of life when struck by catastrophe, accident, mistake or crime. Imagine a case of person who lost his leg or legs in any of the mentioned event either catastrophically, accidentally, or by involving in criminal or corruption activity, the fact of the matter is he has to live his life with his lost leg, the options are not vast, either he will choose his life to live on the mercy of begging, dependence on relatives, neighbors or strangers if any, or he can choose to stay self reliant by doing any kind of small chores, the examples of these scenario is vast in our society where blind cricketers are usually ending up in winning the world cups, limpers selling fruits, vegetables and newspaper but if I am not mistaken the majority ones are begging on the streets.

The Pakistan case for the above scenario seems similar, Pakistan faced the catastrophic events of devastating floods and earthquakes, made the mistake of fighting Afghan war, survived the accident of fall of Dhaka, begging for the USAID for the criminal politicians and corrupt Generals. Though still optimist believe, Pakistan hasn’t lost it’s either leg yet but by and large accept the fact that both legs are in pain of zillion of fractures and the majority of fractures in both legs are either due to its neighborhood policies on east or west. Whether giving justification of succumbing to US pressure due to Indian threat or facing the consequences of Afghan war which influxes the 5 million Afghans into Pakistan is a complete story in itself all together.

Recently American consulate worker killed 4 Pakistani’s in Lahore, Pakistan, 2 of them directly with his gun and 1 of them was crushed by consulate car , the 4^th loss of life was of a female who committed suicide because she couldn’t bear the fact that her husband murderer has been given VIP treatment keeping in mind the comparison of Pakistani Scientist Dr. Aafia whose condition gets so worsened in US custody that even the International Human rights organization condemned it, but the American Government and Judiciary sentenced her for 86 years of imprisonment for an “Attempt to Murder” Case. Even being a liberal somewhere in our heart, all of us know that what US does is in its interest, keeping us limited to “Beggars are not Choosers” treatment.

The question is, till when Pakistani nation will stay and act like silent spectator and would do nothing when they are being treated as beggars are not choosers, which in reality the common man is not begging, the begging is simply done by corrupt politicians and army generals for filling their own pockets, if indeed this 63 years of begging has given some outcome, we wouldn’t be in stranded situation like we are. By large Pakistani’s saw and take relation and AID of US for students as to convert them into Liberal fascists, drone strikes for killing civilians instead of terrorists, analyzes US involved in great game through actors like Raymond davis.

Moving forward the best case for Pakistan is to say NO to USAID and have relation with US based on equal interests, initially it would be difficult and it would be made to look impossible for saying NO to USAID because what we are suggesting is indirect eradication of bread and butter from some powerful sources within Pakistan who are ruling Pakistan since birth by hook or crook either it’s military generals or Monarchist politicians. The powerful sources and the so called liberals might suggest saying NO to USAID will led to destruction of Pakistan and Pakistan might being end up like Afghanistan, Iraq or Burma but why not look at

Korean war (1950 – 53) after which North Korean president adopted a policy of diplomatic and economic of self dependence and most importantly independent foreign policy.

Also why not look at Chinese revolution of Mao Zedong

When during the revolutionary period Mao Zedong of China asked his nation to keep with them hot water and peas for drinking and eating.

Or Why not look at Iran

When Ayatollah Khomeni ended a shah regime when Iran situation was of same like Pakistan where military and politicians all were riding in the boat of US hegemony

Shumaila Faheem committed suicide because she knew she was weak, she was poor, Pakistan is a nation who is fighting US war, Pakistan is being treated like beggars and hence she knew she would end up living her life in disappointment that her husband murderer would be released and already been given VIP treatment for killing  a Pakistani in the heart of Punjab. Hence being weak instead of fighting her case she chooses the simple path and ended her life, God knows tomorrow it can happen to anyone, now it happened in Lahore, tomorrow it can be the biggest city of Pakistan, Karachi where US is building its largest consulate in the world.

The choice is in Pakistan hands, will Pakistanis say NO to USAID and are we are going to

Change Pakistan course to be self dependent and prepare Pakistan to face hardships, but one thing is sure these hardships will help Pakistan develop indefinite power to shape its future.